Sunday, February 25, 2018

Carrol McConaha Rhodes


My Dear Grandma
***Carrol McConaha Rhodes***
got to go to heaven on
Friday, February 16, 2018
(she was born October 21, 1921)
She lived a beautiful 96 years

http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/pal-item/obituary.aspx?pid=188227513

*Since I was a little girl my Grandma would
greet me with "Good Morning Sunshine" and
a glowing smile. (even if it was over the phone
I could hear her smile in her voice)
*I love the way she spoke...she was so eloquent
and expressive--she would say things like:
"I am so pleased", "How Delightful!" and
"That was splendid!"
*I am so proud and lucky to be HER Granddaughter
...to have had all of these years to be in her presence
and learn from her was a great blessing.  There are
so many things about her that I want to emulate...
There are 2 particular things that stand out...
1)Her Perspective
2)Her Love of Words
*PERSPECTIVE: I love the way she saw the
world.  She found the best in everything and
everyone.  She was positive, joyful, and
encouraging.  She set a tone and created an
atmosphere of gratitude.  She turned from the
negative and intentionally devoted her time
and attention to beautiful things.  Philippians 4:8
says "Whatever is TRUE, whatever is NOBLE,
whatever is RIGHT, whatever is PURE,
whatever is LOVELY,  whatever is ADMIRABLE,
if anything is excellent or praiseworthy think about
such things." That is what she did! She loved things
like: flowers, horses, poems, quotes, reading,
journaling, candle making, peacocks, the organ,
her family, corresponding with loved ones...etc...
I know that was a God given gift--He opened her
eyes to see all the beauty he created.
*WORDS: She loved the written word.  She was
such a great, descriptive writer.  She started to
nudge me in middle school to keep a journal--
She said that the words will be priceless one
day--you just have to write them down.  She also
loved the spoken word.  Just getting to have a
conversation with her was a gift--she would ask
questions and genuinely listen for your answer
and make you feel so special.  She made me feel
known and loved.  I soaked up our talks and
felt so lifted up and encouraged afterwards.  She
would say things like "Dear Megan--thank you
so much for calling me" or "I loved your
Christmas card....I'm so proud to be on your
list"....these words came back to me this week...
"I'm so proud to be on your list." Because
I know for certain that she got to experience
something far greater than she could have ever
imagined when she arrived in heaven...She
had Jesus in her heart and accepted Him
as her Lord and Savior...She got to look at
Him face to face and say
"I'm so proud to be on your list"

Grandma's 3 daugthers...
Sisters Crisann, Cathe and Connie
(her son Joel was right there too...
just not in this pic)
listening to the soloist sing
"His Eye is on the Sparrow"


Uncle Ben talking to the girls about
Grandma...her body is here...but she
is celebrating in heaven!!!

Her great grand children got to light the
candles at the funeral
Emersyn, Cole, Milla & Faith on this side...
Braxton, Lauren and Matthew on the other

Pretty cemetery where all 4 of my
grandparents are now laid to rest.

Our Family gathered after the calling...
(missing a few celebrating Grandma's
life from a distance but their hearts were there)


Cousins!!!!!
After the funeral we went to "MCL"...
Grandma's favorite cafeteria

The Pastor reminded us that it was a
gloomy day in Centerville, Indiana...
but--not in heaven! :)
-some of the great granddaughters
with roses in remembrance.
Grandma left a lovely legacy and
was an incredible role model and
inspiration to many generations.
She played a major part in my life
and in SO MANY others.

Quality Time


Taking over Chick-Fil-A!
College Roomies Kiddos....
Faith, Elizabeth, Milla, Harper,
Grant, Hudson, Philip and Cole

Roommates 3 years in a row!

Embarrassed grins when asked to
all put their arms around each other!!

Cousin Sleep Over!!
Happy Early Bday to Lydia!!
Lots of playing with SLIME, movie
watching and bubble bath taking!

Target trip

Buddies!
A visit from Christian, Becky & Lauren

Dress Up...
Fighter Pilot and Anna

Charlotte and Eloise got a baby brother!
Hi James!!!

Milla's Class

Morgan giving Cole some
basketball tips while the girls
are taking gymnastics

Boom! Get Fired Up!


They sparkled on stage!!
Faith and Milla performed in the
Vickery Creek Elementary Talent Show!!!

So PROUD of them!
They did a cheer performance...
It started off with "Bang Bang Choo Choo Train"
then, "Boom! Get Fired Up"
and ended with
 "We Want a Touchdown-Gotta Have a Touchdown"

Valentine's Boxes

Heart Papa John's

Grandpa bench pressing Cole!

Maggiano's

Rigatoni D and Maggiano's Salad!

A walk through the candy shop

Valentine's Day Dance
(Adalyn, Gracie & Faith)

(Melody, Maddie & Milla)

Sisters ready for the dance

GYM DAWGS
perform in Athens


When your friend shows up for a visit
in one of your favorite dresses!!
(Annie and Faith)

Elise and Milla....3rd and 2nd grade!

Good Morning Sunshine


We got to go to Indiana to visit Grandma
Rhodes at "Friends Fellowship"
(my Uncle Bob calls it "The Country Club")
and tell her "Good Morning Sunshine"
in person!

Grandma and Cole Cuddling!
She wanted us to walk around and
introduce ourselves to all of her friends! :)
The girls did their Talent Show routine for
the whole crew!

Love this picture of Grandma in
her fur....she is stunning!

Faith was catching a ride from Uncle Bob
to get a better view at the ice carving
event

Ice Cream after Ice Carving

On the way home we stopped at a hotel
that had a POOL!!! FUN!
Bathing suits and winter boots!

Can't drive through Chattanooga and not
see the Larsons and Peppers!!!
Got to spend the night there on our way
to Indiana!!
(Gran Mum and YaYa with all the grand kids)

We kept them up LATE on a school night!!

Milla at "Note Book Night" telling us
about what she has been working on
and her goals for the rest of the school year!

Going through boxes of Brandon's
sport uniforms over the years at
Mimi and Papa Ray's

Wheeler Baseball

It snowed AGAIN!!!